ADVANCED SPEED SEDUCTION SEMINAR
TAPE 1
Ross: To my Super Speed Seduction Weekend. I know you guys are going to
be blown out of the water. I have been working on this material to the
extent you would not believe. Before we get you into the meat of this
I would just like to ask, how many people here have been to a previous
seminar, raise your hand. Ok. How many people have listened to the home
study course or read the home study course book or work book. Ok. How
many people here have absolutely no exposure to any of my material at any
time. Ok. That's fine. That'll work. That's fine. So you've all
had some exposure. A couple of administrative points and then we'll get
on to the meat of this. We'll going to be here from 5:00 to 10:00, we'll
probably take a pizza break, we'll have pizza brought in around 7:00, 7:30
so you will be fed. Tomorrow we go from 9:30 to 6:00 and Sunday we go from
9:30 to 6:00. Tonight what we'll be covering are some basic principles.
We're going to be reviewing the basic principles. hold your question,
we'll be reviewing the basic principles to make this work and the basic
tools. I might give you a new pattern, I might not. Saturday, we're
going to be going through patterns, some new patterns I've done and
some stuff that's also in the home study course and Sunday we're going
to be doing hot seats. Ok. I forgot to bring the hot seat form to fill
out if you want to do hot seats. I will have them tomorrow. So if you
want to do hot seats make sure you see Yates and, what the hot seats are
about is if you have some specific challenge, there's one particular
woman that you've always been after or something like that, you get up
here and we work with you and we carve out an exact strategy for you
to follow. And some of my top students will be here, some of them are
already in the room tonight. They are here to help you. One point I
want to make. This seminar is not about competition. I know as men
we are very competitive, this seminar is about cooperating. I want
everyone here to have the attitude of helping each other. When I break
you up in groups to do exercises, I want you to do the exercises. Is
that clear?
Audience: Yeah
Ross: Ok, good, you're giving me the verbal feedback. It's yes or no.
The next point I want to make is, we will be taking breaks fairly
frequently, so don't worry about that. There's no name tags, you don't
have to ask permission to go to the bathroom or any of the other bullshit.
I am vulgar in my language so if you are offended by vulgar language,
get the fuck out now. Ok. Because I'm teaching very sophisticated
concepts and the only way I can keep my own mind fresh is by descending
into the gutter on frequest occasions. So, we will have women in the
room, they are here as my demonstration subjects, don't worry about
them, you're presence here is confidential, that's no problem. If you
want to try patterns on them, feel free, but not inside the room. If
you want to mess with them out there and try some of this stuff, feel
free. Ok. In this room, unless I'm assigning you to work with them, leave
them alone. Ok. And, this is Jackie, she was at one of my seminars
I taught her one day from the learning annex, she's one of our
subjects here so, hello Jackie. The other thing I'll tell you about,
I promise to, all demonstration subjects, male or female, that I will
not embarrass or humiliate you, in an unhealthful fashion.
Audience: Laughs
Ross: So, I think that about covers all of the administrative stuff.
One final point, if you have a question, I insist that you ask it. My
dedication is to make sure you get this material. I have seen in my
own life the difference it has made in the fun I have as a result of
learning these skills. I've seen what some of my better students
has been able to do with this. There is no greater joy for me than to
have my student call me up and go Ross, you wouldn't believe it,
this chick is madly in love with me, I can't believe it, blah, blah,
I love hearing that. When I hear that someome is getting results
it's just blowing their mind, it blows my mind, I love it. So, if
you have a question, ask it. Will everyone agree to that, will you
ask a question if you've got it.
Audience: Yes
Ross: The only exception is, do not ask me questions during the break.
For two reasons: (1) I need the breaks, and (2) the other people
in the room don't get to hear the benefit of the answer. Is that fair?
Ross: Alright, so let's get started tonight. Huh, what is this
really all about? There is varying degrees in this room right now
of understanding of my material, and I realize that. I realize some
people get it at a great degree and some people get it to a lesser
degree. The real major point, the real basic principles that this is
all about. There's basically there's two full principles. First it's about
creating a state for yourself, learning to create and control your
own state so that when you go into a situation, you have a state that's
powerful and fun and you feel totally confident that you're going to
get the result. You see, I can give you the best possible tools in
the world, but if you're not in the right state when it becomes time
to use those tools, it's going to be worthless, you're not going to be
able to do anything with it. And that's why in my home study course,
raise your hand if you got the home study course, so we all know
about the unstoppable confidence tapes, do we all have those?
Ross: Does anyone listen to those.
Ross: Alright, the point of those exercises, sit towards the front if
you can, if you can find a seat towards the front do so, there's one
next to this gentleman, so sit there if you can or Yates make sure
they're properly ushered in. The point of those unstoppable confidence
tapes was not to passively listen, the point was to use them to build
the state for yourself where you're very powerful and you're able to do
what you need to do. I mean, how many people have ever been in a
situation when you meet, where you see a woman that you would like to
meet and you think of the exact right thing to say to her, an hour
later after she's walked out of your life forever, has it ever happened?
Audience: Yes, Oh yeah
Ross: So what I propose, I'm proposing some things that are fairly
preposterous. One of the things I'm proposing is you can learn to
control your states. Now we live in a society that teaches
that emotions are out of our control. I tend to propose two things:
(1) That you can control your own states; and (2) You can learn to
control and direct the states of the women that you want to control
and direct. Now traditional psychological thinking will tell you
that's impossible. I hope that you already know that they're are
wrong and I'm right and by the end of the evening, by the end of the
weekend, I'm sure you'll be convinced that I'm right. In fact, if
you were to find yourself being totally convinced by every word
I say, won't it be great after you've enjoyed a weekend filled with
being in that state of absolute suggestibility. Have you ever
experienced absolute suggestibility? As you find yourself reentering
that state, and allow my words to deepen and just intensify that state,
I feel great knowing that I'm helping you to learn. And so I think we should
start by giving me a big round of applause, huh?
Audience: Claps
Ross: There you go, there you go. Thank you. See, thank you and by the
way I just demonstrated some things, did anyone hear the embedded
commands and the other thing. Did anyone hear the weasel phrases
and other things. So, they're really just a couple of basics. Well,
that's basic (1) learning to control your own state and due to feedback
from my students in previous seminars, I will be taking you through
some exercises to help build that confidence and so when you walk out
with the unstoppable confidence tapes, you'll know how to work with
and better yourselves. Fair enough?
Audience: Yeah.
Ross: Ok. The other aspect of all this is that you can learn to
control and direct the states of the women, not just women, but in
any area of your life, I mean, my student, Mark, I'm very proud of
Mark. This is Mark xxxxxxx. Mark, stand up and take a bow, just
for a second. Mark has been using these skills, not just romantically
but in, shall we say, other areas.
Mark: Other areas.
Ross: So these skills are useful for persuading anyone. And let's talk
about the basics about that. What are the basics of using these skills
to persuade others? Let's look at some basic principles. And these
are in your notes. You should all have a set of notes. Basic
principles. Basic principles. This is what this is all about. Let's
set your notes down. What this is really about is creating a conversational
framework, a conversational framework that allows you to direct the
prophesis and emotional states of the woman that you want to seduce.
And what we do is we set up a framework where we do whatever we need to
to get these results. And it seems like normal conversation. Now,
there are two different styles of doing this. You can be conversational
and covert, that's where you just sneak things into your conversation,
or you can be very blatant and directive. Guess what? They both work.
How many people here have a fear of being caught using this stuff? Be
honest. You don't need to be afraid. Because I'm telling you when you
do this right, it doesn't matter. They will say things like, I know
you're doing this and it's still working. I know you're doing
something but it doesn't matter, this is working. I go that's right.
Let me give you an illustrated example of this. I like, personally
if I have my choice, I'd do this. I enjoy being blatant, I enjoy
telling people what to do and by the way for alot of women, it's a
turn on. When you're blatant and you're powerful about it, alot of
them, not all, are turned on by that, they think hey this guy is
really powerful. It's a skill to learn which one you're dealing with.
And sometimes you have to do a little trial and error to find out. If
I start out being blatant and I don't like the response that I'm getting,
I'll back off and be more conversational and covert. One of the skills
that you need to learn to really master this material at a powerful
level is the ability to back off if what you're doing isn't working.
And take a different approach. Ok. How many of you here has tried
some of this and when you tried it she wasn't responsing well, so you
just shut down and quit. Raise your hand if that's happened. Keep
your hands up. What's your name?
Eric: Eric
Ross: Eric, what was your experience? Tell your experience in trying
it and didn't get a good result so you backed off.
Eric: Well, there was a, this was a couple of months ago or actually three
weeks ago, I was talking to the receptionist at the doctor's office
and I figured, you know, I was just getting into the material, and I figured
ok, what the hell. We'll try something and I forget exactly what I
said to her, but I got a funny look, and so I just said, well ok, I'll just
you know, give her the credit card, get out.
Ross: Right, that is a mistake. Just because you get a funny look,
it doesn't mean that you can't try something else. Look guys, I'm not
just giving you nuclear weapons. I'm giving you neutron bombs,
full time torpedoes, xxxxxx tractor beams, xxxxxx. You know if
one thing doesn't work, you've got plenty tricks in the bag. Just back
up and do something else. Yes, your name?
Audience: Rick
Ross: Yeh
XXXX: That's funny, because I've noticed that they'll get that certain
look but that's right before they start going into trance.
Ross: That's right. Sometimes that look doesn't mean they're disagreeing,
it just means they're about to go into a deep trance. So you can't always
tell what those looks mean. The basic thing I want to give you guys is
a basic attitude that's going to help you. And that basic attitude
is the attitude that everything you do is an experiment. If you go in
there with the attitude of, oh, this is got to work, if it doesn't
work, I'm a pencil dick impenitent fool and all that, forget that, let that go.
The attitude that you want to get is hey, this is an experiment, if
it doesn't work, I've learned something and I can try something else.
Take the pressure off yourself. Take the pressure off yourself, it's
very important. So what we're doing is creating a conversational
framework and if something doesn't work, I step away from it. Let me
give you an example of this. Now let me give you an example of just how
blatant you can be. Last week I was at a taping, my friend Shawn,
who'll be here tomorrow probably, was taping a TV show. And after the
show I was backstage fooling around with one of the producers and I'll
show you how blatant I am. I said to her, I said you know, I said,
first of all, I was hitting on the other producer and she turned out
to have a boyfriend so I switched right over to this one, and it was
a serious boyfriend and I didn't want to bother with the boyfriend
destroyer which we'll get into later and I said I have an intuition
about you, and she said what's that, I said I have an intuition
that you're very visual, you make pictures in your head very well,
I said in fact, you have a talent. You're talent is you can look right
at someome and they think you're listening, but you can be making
movies in your mind of something that you'd rather be doing. And she
said, oh my God, that's right, how did you know that? I said I'll tell
you something else that I know about you. I said you motivate yourself,
stop and think of something that really motivates you, something you
just can't wait to do and I saw this, her pupils dialated. When you
see this, when they don't have to look up to visualize, when they do
this, that means they're really visual. If you start out talking
about feelings with these women, they're not going to get it, because
they're processing pictures, ok. So she went, yeah, you got it, I
said do you have that thing, she said yeah, I said it's a big picture
in front of your face isn't it? She said yeah. I said and notice as you
take the picture and pull it away and make it smaller, doesn't it seem
less motivating? And she went oh my God, yes it does. I said, but
then, there's like a blank spot there that wants to be filled in.
Ross: Now you guys know where I'm going with this. I said so notice
what it's like as an image of you and I laughing over a cup of
coffee, just sneaks itself and locks itself right in there. Doesn't it
make it seem like it's something you want to do and she starts
laughing, she said, my God, I know you just shoved it in there but
it's working anyway. I said absolutely right. I said you know after
we've gone for coffee and you've fallen for me completely I wonder
if you'll be willing to share with me just exactly what it was about
me that caused you to come to that conclusion. because alot of women thinks
it's my sense of humor. I do make you laugh, don't I? And she
laughed, you know which of course is proof that I hold things until they take
place. So of course, it all works, you see. That's how blatant
I am. You can be that blatant. Now, when we went for coffee, I did
one thing that she didn't like. And she said, you know, I don't
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