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Seminars

Brendon :

So I think it’s really powerful that you all know

you can succeed in any topic you really want to,

yes?

Brendon :

Did your purpose change when you failed one

time in something, yes or no? It’s like, everyone

believes that you have this mission statement

that’s forever, I don’t believe that person,

because I think that ultimately -- yes, all of our

mission statements are very similar, it was given

to us.

Audience :

Yes!

Brendon :

Because could you research any area that you

really want to do, yes?

There is a purpose that was given to us, and it’s

obvious. Do you know what it is? Happy, love,

serve others; contribute. I mean I was thinking

this is like the obvious stuff; the big purpose

stuff. It was given to us, it’s so obvious if we pay

attention, now the rest is like, well, what are your

values, what are your priorities and what's

important to you and what do you love, what’s

your interest, and organize around that.

Audience :

Yes!

Brendon :

Well the question is, well, what’s your area?

You know people always ask me, I came here --

do you know what tell me, what is my passion?

Our seminar guys love that. Tell me what my

passion is. I don’t know you.

But on purpose, I get asked about this all the

time because of my car accident, they all say,

well, what’s life's purpose, what am I supposed

to do? I say life’s purpose? I don’t know what

your life’s purpose is, I think humanity has been

given a little bit of purpose; it’s like pretty

obvious.

Tell me what my life’s purpose is. I don’t know

you either. It’s true though. How many of you

ever face this? It’s like I want you to help me

figure out my passion, want you to help me

figure out purpose.

I talked about this, in my June Experts Academy

after a guy had a seizure in the back of the

room. The guy had a seizure in the back of the

room, I am talking about crisis management,

right.

I have no idea of what your life's purpose is, and

I personally believe really closely that

everyone’s purpose changes throughout your

lives. I mean did your purpose change when

you had children, yes or no?

Three quarters away the back of the room,

boom, big seizure, the group jumps up and

freaks out and everyone saying, doctor, doctor,

doctor, and just frenetic, freaky. Was anyone

Audience :

Yes!

there in June with me? Was that crazy? I mean

it was just like this crazy energy all directed

towards the back and people were just like out

of their mind freaking about it. You could feel

this and it was almost like, if you’ve ever been in

a bar when a fight broke out, that’s what it felt

like, did it? I mean it was crazy.

meeting

the

needs

those

around

us,

especially in terms of managing energy.

People, it’s so easy to freak down, frenetic about

things. Sometimes I think the best thing that you

can do is be the most present person in any

situation, just be there. Sometimes that means

excited, sometimes that means calm, but being

the most present person in any situation means

that you are probably going to be the most

capable person to handle a situation, especially

in emergency, especially in emergency.

I remember, the guy has a seizure and people

screaming for the doctor and I am paying

attention to this, I see it, and now my job is to --

as I told you today, with events your job is to

what, manage two things; manage energy and

manage -- obviously, I got to manage the energy

in this.

I have this philosophy about what needs to

happen in emergencies, do you want me to

share with you?

I think all of us -- I am now saying this is your

purpose, I am not to that point yet, but I think all

of us, I think as a higher spiritual practice, one of

our main things we should do is meet poor

energy with good energy and help convert all of

bad energy into good energy, I think it’s just

basic.

Audience :

Yes!

Brendon :

I can just get the life’s purpose. Which one do

you want? Emergency, life purpose, I never

know. Okay, so here's my belief.

Most people don’t know how to handle crisis,

most people don’t know how to handle their

lives. But there is a very simple thing that I

know that I could do in a situation like that that

has to happen for the group.

Oh yes! It’s Friday night. It’s going to feel like

Friday night, I am going to go back in time with

this thing. So here’s when it was happening,

right. Any given -- here’s the process. If you

psychologically ever need to meet through a

crisis or something going crazy, what happens is

crisis happen. It's an event; it's always an

external event.

So I worked them through this energy thing and

basically what I do is I have everyone close their

eyes, because everyone was freaking out, I

said, hold on you guys, please put some good

energies. Everyone, please close your eyes

with me.

Some crazy thing happens, there is a big crisis

and you are managing the energy of a room or

you are managing the energy of a situation, you

are managing the energy of people around you,

because I really believe your job is to be the

most present person in any given situation,

especially in crisis.

Please say some prayers back to this person,

whatever way you prayer, whatever way you say

good energy, please send it back to this person,

he desperately needs it, please send it back to

him. He is okay, people are watching over him.

I don’t know what the situation is, we will find

out, keep your eyes closed and I just walked

them through.

So crisis, crazy, frenetic energy, everyone is

freaking out, oh my God! What step 1 that you

do?

I take just call my energy down, stand very solid,

and just hold the room. Everyone’s eyes closed

and I just hold the room, and I just start talking

about life.

Right, you instill calmness. Everyone is freaking

out so calm the situation down. That’s why

when everyone is freaking out, everyone is

jumping and running, boom! I stand there, and

then go, everybody, we need some good

energy, please close your eyes and then I start

talking.

Because of the situation, spurred it off, I started

talking about the purpose to life and what’s

important. And a lot of about, I think is really

There was an intensity in my voice if you were

there and if you're watching online, now it’s been

viewed by 41,000 speakers around the world.

It’s like case-study in crisis management I can’t

believe that. I just never anticipated this would

happen.

Brendon :

C! So now where might we go? Well calm, they

might ought to be centered. Connected, sure?

What did they say?

This became a case-study, because boom! I

just take the center of the stage, I am solid, and

there is an intensity, but then you hear if you

were at time, I am getting calm, and calm and

calm, and calm, and calm, but I naturally slow

down.

Calm! Well, look, freak out, calm them down,

not confident. That’s what most people do, by

the way. This happens all the time in poor crisis

management that always happens; they skip

something. They are like, okay, yeah, it's like,

okay, we are all calm.

There is a calmness to it and I am just talking

and I am talking about life, what’s important, I’ll

share some of the ideas about that, because I

think that might help you find your passion

tonight or at least step into it, or at least give you

some things to think about for tomorrow, so you

can come with that.

Now okay everybody no- no– no- it’s a

reconnection and that reconnection happens

through clarity. It’s about providing a

reconnection to what’s important. It’s about

providing a reconnection to our values, it's about

providing a reconnection to those we serve

about reconnecting other people back to clarity

to about what’s important.

So when we get into the technology and the

tools of all this that you really say, okay, I know

what’s important to me, I know what I want to

do. So the first thing is, when everyone is

freaking out when crisis happens you focus on

calmness.

After 9-11 great leaders after the calming has

happened, they are clarifying American values

and what’s important to us. That’s where they

go with that. It’s easy to go anywhere it’s easy

to give a pep up talk, that’s not the right answer

sometimes yet.

You focus on calm and still in calm right off the

bat. That’s what needs to happen. Most people

skip this step they think there is something

more. No, it’s really about calmness. It’s just

the same thing that when 9/11 happens or

something like that, and everybody is freaking

out.

First, what happens is, people remember they

freaked out. Now you've got to calm them down,

you've got them in a state in which they can

receive and now they have to receive direction,

and the only way to do that is provide clarity

about what’s important at the moment. Do you

all follow so far?

Your job isn’t to explain it, your job isn’t to make

it okay, your job isn't to motivate people to

overcome, that’s not at all. It’s like, no, it's calm

and in whatever way that’s appropriate for that

situation you are in. But once you get people to

calmness in a crisis, what's the next step?

Where we needed to go?

Once people have clarity, now it’s like, okay I

know, for example, who I am or what am I all

about, or what we are all about or what we want

to do together. Once they have the clarity piece,

then something happens. It’s like, that old thing

competence leads to confidence.

Does anyone have an idea? Shift their energy,

sure. This whole process is an energy shift,

sure. Where? Towards the solution. Well, let

me give this, in terms of those framework

junkies out there who like my frameworks.

It’s like now we know, now we can start feeling

better. Now we can start feeling better and then

your job to shift from frenetic into calm and

centered into direction and understanding. Now

it’s the time to put that last piece and the most

people go, jump too early, which is confidence.

That’s the time.

I usually use alliteration, so what’s the next we

are going to start with?

So I am teaching this partially because there are

people in the room who've asked me, how did

Audience :

you manage that crisis, oh my God! That was

insane.

I mean imagine, 400 people from around the

world and somebody seizes, I mean it was very

serious seizure too and it took, I thought, it took

about 20 minutes. I mean it was so fast, I

thought it was like, boom that was over because

it happened, everyone freaked out, and the

energy was so high.

don't know so much about it, I don’ t know, I

don’t know, I don’t know! Calm! calm down.

Get centered, be present, get back in your

space.

Then clarify what’s important to me, what do I

really want here? What should I do? And once

you have a little piece of that clarity then it’s

about okay, I've got to give myself that credit

again that I can do this, I've got to believe again

in my message.

Boom! I got everyone centered, calm, I’m

talking about life, their eyes are closed people

are sending positive energy.

Well, between the time that happened and they

get the ambulance to come in, they had to clear

the row and get in, how long was that Dona? I

think it was 50 minutes. Oh it was a full hour.

I’m thinking, but in my mind, I am not walking

through this framework per se, but people, they

have been asking.

I have to believe again that I can achieve these

things. So I teach this all the time, anytime there

is this crisis energy and everybody has it in the

learning environment at some point. It usually

happens at this night at Experts Academy.

You know what, people, there's so much, there's

so much, it's like ah, and all I want to do is, calm

you down a little bit. How many people feel

already in this room there is calmer than there

was 20 minutes ago? Everybody feel it its just

calm.

It is the way you talk, it is the way you manage

your room, but at the end of the day, its how you

manage your learning too, because everybody

gets overwhelmed in this industry. That’s why

most people don't make it, because they don’t

manage all of this for themselves.

They don’t manage their entire emotional state

and so their learning stops.

What I would rather have is you work on yourself

in these areas, so that when we really ramp into

it tomorrow that you're coming from a places like

confidence.

I’m ready to do this and you're coming from a

place in which you understand that you can, so

that you're still open enough then we can

accomplish objectives tomorrow, which is

certainly to make sure you have a plan when

you leave here, but also that so make sure, you

have all the tools.

So many people say, how did you do it? How

did you manage it? What’s going on? Well, at

the end of the day, this is kind of what I walk

them through because you will see at the end of

the video is now that not only do we have

everybody calm and centered.

They know what’s important in life because I’ve

walked through that, well their eyes are closed,

talking about what’s important to us, then it's just

like, okay, I start pulling them out of that into a

higher energy, into their confidence.

Can you all do this, yes?

Audience :

Yes!

Brendon :

You just have to focus on it. Is this intuitively

makes sense to most people here?

Audience:

Yes!

Brendon :

It’s like you can’t go from here to here, which is

what most poor leaders try to do. You also can’t

go from here to here. You also can’t skip this

and you also can’t skip this or this. It's like the

essence of a framework for handling crisis.

You've got to do that, but you also have to do

that in your own life when you are freaking out

about something. People have to do this in their

own lives when they freak about something.

Even in learning environments, because what

happens in learning environment, it was like, I

Does it make sense?

Audience : Yes!

Brendon :

So it's about managing this. So, I am managing

the crisis of the situation. The person is having

seizure, everyone is freaking out, and then I

start talking about the purpose to life.

To me, the purpose of life, again, I think it was

given to us and it's I think people will take a

really long search to find this unnecessarily

sometimes only because they are not paying

attention to what’s real, what’s here.

Maybe as part of the purpose, is to be fully

alive? The other thing we know, looking around

for those rationalists, looking around, what else

do we know? Well, we’re on a planet, we’re

lucky and we’re live. What else about us do we

know? Six billion people. What else do you

know about six billion people?

I think we all have to take a big long search to

find our values and our priorities and our

interest, no question.

Our purpose, I don’t know what your purpose

was, but I think humanity was given one. It's

pretty obvious. Look around the world, there is

a bunch of the people; we're all alive, yes?

Audience :

That we're all connected, yes. That we have

needs. What else do we know about all six

billion people? They are trying to die. No

wonder Armand is so rich. What else do we

know about all six billion? This is the only

universe so we know for sure with all six billion

people.

Yes!

Brendon :

Maybe because we were given the gift of life

and maybe you see as a gift or maybe you don’t

see as a gift. I don’t know how you view, maybe

this all happen stance whatever. I view life as a

gift. I know that because it was almost taken

away and now I got it to get my second chance,

as a big gift.

Audience :

No!

Brendon :

No, we don’t know that. No, there are people

who have actually been injured in the brain who

don’t want love. We all die, well that's part of

being fully alive. Yes, okay, what else do we

know about all six billion people?

I feel life is a big gift but if we’re all still alive,

maybe the hint from above or from the universe

or whatever it is, random chance for you, maybe

if you are alive, maybe one piece of your

purpose in life is to be fully --?

May be there is a little hint to that. People will

say what should I do? Well, what makes you

fully alive? What is it? People will say, what

should I do, what’s my passion, what’s my

passion?

We share the same feelings. No, we do not all

share the same feelings.

Audience :

We all breathe.

Brendon :

We all breathe, no. We all have the same

needs, actually, that’s incorrect; we don’t know

we have the same needs.

We only have 24 hours, that’s very true there is

a global universality there, yes. What else?

I don’t know, what makes you fully alive, that’s

the answer, what makes me fully alive might be

different than what makes you fully alive, might

be completely different than what makes you

fully alive.

I don’t know what’s your passion is, but perhaps

part of our purpose is do those things and make

us fully alive because we are supposed to be

alive. Agreed?

Audience : Yeah!

We live on a planet we know that, but what

about the people? Yeah, we all have energy,

yes. I can’t believe all six billion people eat. I've

got to change the speech now; I haven't thought

about that, they do, they eat.

They eat barbecue, ye! Now what else? All six

billion people are different, unique. Oh shit !

There goes the whole speech.

Brendon :

Don’t we all just want to leave more fully alive,

more vibrate, more in the moment just here, is

this neat?

Check it out, isn't it true? Nobody -- some

people might look exactly the same but they've

done twin study, after twin study, after twin

study, they are not the same.

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