Zan Special Report.pdf

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An “Interviews With Dating Gurus” Special Report …

“ How To Get A Woman To

FANTASIZE About You…”

Tips From The “Zan”

Monthly Interview

David DeAngelo

www.DoubleYourDating.com/InterviewSeries

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“ How To Get A Woman To

FANTASIZE About You…”

This month I had the pleasure of interviewing a friend of

mine who goes by the name of Zan… and he shared some KILLER

insights on becoming the kind of man who sparks attraction in

women naturally.

Zan has been fascinated for some time now by “naturals”…

those guys we all know who seem to have a natural something

about them that attracts women.

He was fortunate to figure out what this “something” was at a

young age… but that didn’t stop him from continuing to perfect

his game, and learn more and more about what really makes a

woman want a man.

These days he’s practically UNSTOPPABLE… and in our

interview he explained what YOU need to do to reach that same

level of success… and become the type of man that women

FANTASIZE about…

Let’s get right into it...

1. Be Authentic, Not “Approval-Seeking”

One great idea Zan shared is that most men have lost the

notion of MASCULINITY... we’ve become conditioned to believe

that it’s not “OK” to be a guy who LOVES women… and lets them

know it.

Instead, most guys are lead to believe that they need to mask

their desires, and hide their natural inclinations… because they’re

afraid if they don’t they will come across as needy…

But Zan says you CAN be direct about being attracted to a

woman – IF you come from the right place.

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Zan himself is VERY DIRECT with a woman when he first

meets her. He’ll often walk right up to her and say, “Wow, you’re

dazzling. Who are you, and why aren’t you my girlfriend?”

Now, if you look at what he says on the surface it may sound

“over the top”… and you might think he’s being too

complimentary…

But the big point to get here is that you can pull off giving a

compliment like this – and make a HUGE impact on a woman –

IF you’re coming from a place of AUTHENTICITY rather than

neediness .

Because Zan has a fun, playful attitude that REEKS of

confidence… and because he’s genuine and sincere, women are

swept away by his bold and direct approach.

Now… if he said the exact same words while coming from a

place of neediness, or trying to “impress” a woman and gain her

approval, you can bet he would get a totally different response.

Women would pick up on it and think “There’s something

wrong here… this just doesn’t feel right.”

But… when you have the attitude of “I have my act together…

and I’m not desperate… but hey… you have my attention and I’m

confident enough to let you know it,” you can say just about

ANYTHING and women will respond positively.

Approaching a woman and telling her you are attracted to her

in this way is VERY different from going up to her and telling her

how beautiful she is and how you would do anything to be with

her… and it’s also very powerful.

Next time you see a woman that you find attractive, let her

know it in a playful, confident, and non-approval seeking way. I

think you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the reaction you get.

2. Take Her On An Adventure

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Zan shared another point that I thought was simply

GOLDEN.

He said a woman doesn’t want to BE the adventure… she

wants to be TAKEN on one.

She wants to be taken along your path… she doesn’t want to

BECOME your path.

She doesn’t want to be the SOLE PURPOSE in a man’s life,

but she wants to be with a man who HAS a purpose.

Get the point?

Women are attracted to men who have lives that are BIGGER

than the women in them... who don’t put ALL their attention on

her.

Zan says this is one of the key traits of the natural. He has a

purpose that ISN’T her. He’s going somewhere important, a

destination that HE chose… and he’d love it if she came along, but

he’s going there with or without her.

This is a CRUCIAL mindset… and one of the biggest things

that separates the “naturals” from every other guy out there. The

more you can incorporate it and make it a part of who you are, the

more you’ll find women are COMPELLED to join you on your

path.

3. The Greatest Aphrodisiac

Here’s another fascinating point Zan shared…

For centuries, the men who were great with women all

recognized one thing… and it’s this:

HONESTY IS THE GREATEST APHRODISIAC.

This means 2 things:

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Never play with a woman’s emotions. Be upfront

with your intentions… if she’s looking for a boyfriend

and you’re looking for some short term fun, let her

know. You’ll be surprised how attracted she’ll be to

your honesty… even if it’s not exactly what she wants

to hear.

Never defend yourself from having a reputation as a

player. Be comfortable with your love of women.

Women respect men who are upfront about who they are and

where they’re coming from. Try it out for yourself…

4. Real Men Are Rare

Zan also shared that every man who wants to improve his

success with women must go through a process of getting rid of

LIMITING BELIEFS. It’s these beliefs that hold us back more

than anything else.

At one of Zan’s seminars, a guy approached him and

complained “Women never like me… I’m just too short”.

Zan told him, “The only thing you’re short on is the will to

erase your self-limiting beliefs.”

Zan says that the guys in history that enjoyed incredible

success with women weren’t good looking… and they weren’t

rich… but they were willing to question their limiting beliefs and

look at things in different ways.

I spent a lot of my early life looking at attractive women and

thinking “Wow, if I could get one of THOSE… that sure would be

cool… they’re so rare and valuable…”

Well, I love looking at things from perspectives no one has

considered before… and when I looked at this from the

WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE… I realized something INCREDIBLE…

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