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The Juggler Method

Seduction Manual

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The Juggler Method

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Table of Index

1 Juggler’s Method.................................................. 3

1.1 Juggler’s 90 – 10 Rule........................................ 4

1.2 Structure..................................................... 5

1.3 SOI, State Change & Extraction................................ 6

1.4 Using SOI..................................................... 8

1.5 Before Extraction............................................. 9

1.6 Being High Maintenance....................................... 10

1.7 Eliciting values vs. 'I am the prize'........................ 11

1.8 Street Approaches............................................ 13

1.9 Seducer ON/OFF............................................... 13

2 Routines......................................................... 14

2.1 Movie Rating................................................. 14

2.2 Girlfriend Test.............................................. 15

3 Groups........................................................... 17

3.1 Group Theory................................................. 17

3.2 Pulling 1 Girl away from a Group of Girls.................... 19

3.3 Disarming Male Obstacles..................................... 20

3.4 Handling Situations.......................................... 20

3.5 Mixed Groups................................................. 20

3.6 Locking in your Target....................................... 21

3.7 Understand the group approach................................ 22

3.8 Entertaining a group......................................... 23

3.9 Miscellaneous Points......................................... 24

4 Conversational Jujitsu........................................... 24

4.1 Story Telling................................................ 24

4.1.1 Purpose of Story......................................... 26

4.1.2 Sample Edit.............................................. 26

4.2 Questions vs. Statements..................................... 27

4.3 Become a Better Talker....................................... 30

4.4 What to Say vs. How to Say................................... 31

4.4.1 Keeping a straight face.................................. 32

4.5 The dreaded ‘I don’t know’................................... 32

4.6 Rapport...................................................... 33

4.6.1 Rapport Building......................................... 34

4.7 Always Trade................................................. 35

4.8 Turning the Tables........................................... 36

4.9 Communicating that you are Qualifying them................... 38

4.10 Put a price on yourself.................................... 39

4.11 Hooks and Pauses........................................... 40

4.12 About Ejecting............................................. 42

4.13 Forcing IOIs............................................... 42

4.14 Don’t Fluff................................................ 43

4.15 Comebacks.................................................. 43

4.16 Silencing strong opinions/beliefs/feelings etc............. 44

4.17 On Transitioning between topics............................ 45

4.18 Do not ask open ended questions............................ 45

4.19 Handling Compliments....................................... 46

4.20 The Last Words on Compliments.............................. 47

4.21 Conversation Examples...................................... 48

4.21.1 Study Group............................................ 48

4.21.2 Take time and talk about yourself...................... 48

4.21.3 Compliment Openers..................................... 49

4.21.4 How are you 1.......................................... 49

4.21.5 How are you 2.......................................... 49

4.21.6 How are you 3.......................................... 50

4.21.7 Opinion Opener......................................... 50

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4.21.8 Eliciting Values....................................... 50

5 Phone Guidelines................................................. 51

5.1 Phone Techniques............................................. 53

5.1.1 Forgotten Name........................................... 53

5.1.2 Phone Technique.......................................... 53

5.1.3 Cell phone interruptions, how to handle.................. 54

5.1.4 Caller ID Block.......................................... 54

5.1.5 Handling busy responses.................................. 54

5.1.6 Phone Sarging Advice..................................... 55

5.1.7 Do not mention the bad number............................ 56

5.1.8 Responses to Cancelled Dates............................. 56

6 Miscellaneous.................................................... 56

6.1 Cold Approach................................................ 56

6.2 Unemotional vs. Emotional Revisited.......................... 57

6.3 Aggression and non verbal communication...................... 59

6.4 Body Language................................................ 59

6.5 Balance of Power............................................. 60

6.6 About Lying.................................................. 62

6.7 Overcoming the ‘Age Difference’ problem...................... 63

6.8 Make yourself needed......................................... 64

6.9 Serious vs. Funny............................................ 65

6.10 Talking about yourself..................................... 65

6.11 Confront him about his bad behavior........................ 66

6.12 Showing anger to woman..................................... 66

6.13 Do not waste time figuring out............................. 67

6.14 Don’t encourage people to laugh at you..................... 67

6.15 About Dancing.............................................. 68

6.16 General Observations....................................... 68

6.17 Always answer the HB’s Question............................ 69

6.18 Coffee Table............................................... 69

6.19 Control of Relationship.................................... 70

6.20 About Feelings............................................. 71

6.21 Calibration................................................ 71

6.22 Adding Restrictions........................................ 72

6.23 On getting into LTR........................................ 72

6.24 Talking about Sex.......................................... 72

6.25 Dealing with Jealousy...................................... 73

6.26 How to handle when someone demands......................... 74

6.27 Girl asking you question................................... 74

6.28 Target Witness use of Physical Force....................... 75

6.29 If she likes you........................................... 75

6.30 Where are you from?........................................ 76

6.31 Lesson to learn............................................ 76

6.32 Get her to EV you.......................................... 77

6.33 Always answer a HB’s question.............................. 77

6.34 PUA Psychology............................................. 78

6.35 Double Dates............................................... 79

6.36 Being Led Instead of Leading............................... 80

6.37 Kiss Close................................................. 80

6.38 Miscellaneous Posts........................................ 81

6.39 Miscellaneous Points....................................... 82

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1 Juggler’s Method

Open with anything. It can be opinion or a situation or introducing

yourself or even bleeding on people. In dynamic situation (store and

moving people) a situational opener tends to work well. But in clubs or

static situations I like to just introduce myself.

The key is not the opener. The opener does not matter much. The key is

how you handle the response. The method is amplifying and using

responses. You want to gain the skill to read and use a wider range of

responses – that’s fun flexible and makes real connections.

Using routines as openers or anywhere does not give you much

opportunity to use a wide range of responses. The very point of a

routine is to elicit a specific 'good' response - that's boring and

weak.

The method is not to worry so much about getting deep but to get wide

rapport (a feeling like you can talk about anything). Again the key is

including and amplifying a girl's response, no matter the response.

Talking about relationships are great. But keep in mind you must talk

about your relationship experience or this comes across as you are just

hitting on her.

Make an SOI. At all her high points (laughing, etc). This rewards her

for trying and sarging you back.

You do not arrange a meeting. You either instant date or both of you

admit you are really into each other. Then if you want to get together

later it is a matter of just taking care of the details. The real

business is in her agreeing that she is into you.

But really this is not a method. There are no stages or steps. There is

no transition. It should not be thought of as a tool to achieve a

result. It is a way. It is a place you should achieve and stay in and

bring others into. The things like SOI at her high points or gaining

the skill to use any of her reactions or any of the other parts of the

way are not tools to manipulate a result. They are ways to help her

fulfill her natural human want to be in that place.

Here is the Juggler way:

Think about what you would want an interaction with a girl to be like

if there was no need to get sex. Let's say that sex was a given. You

did not need to do anything tricky or run 'game' to score. How would

you like that interaction to be? Myself I want it to be fun, exciting,

relaxed, playful and sharing with each other willingly. Now think about

how you can make that happen. Would you use tricks or be sneaky to get

a girl to be that with you? No, that would be counter productive and/or

unnecessary work. You would instead lead her by being fun, relaxed,

sharing, or whatever you want the interaction to be like yourself and

learn to allow and encourage her to be that as well.

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It is just that most people have no idea how to allow and help someone

achieve this place. Now the big mental step. Sexuality is not that big

of a deal. Sure it has more important implications as far as chance of

pregnancy, disease and emotional connotations. But from a 'who has the

power' point of view it should be regarded the same way as having fun

or any of the things you want an interaction to be - it should have

nothing to do with power.

Style you are a great person. You have many of the skills for doing

this method. You are an amazing and cool person. Much of what you do

with women is so unnecessary. If you would just take the chance of

directly being the great you that you are then you would not need so

much of this extra stuff. I think you are afraid of your own greatness

and maybe dealing with some of the reactions you would get that comes

with letting that person out. Sometimes you seem so close to making

this shift. Ah, but anyway you are a good friend so I have time to

convince you.

What I am talking about is amazing. It can make a very intimate real

connection very quickly - with super hot babes or anyone else for that

matter. It has been shown to me to be very powerful in many, many

contexts. It is based on universal truths. And as you know, I can not

demonstrate the more intimate aspects to anyone's satisfaction because

of the LTR I am in. But don't confuse the message with the messenger. I

usually get out of interactions after hooking a girl because I know the

danger and power of the way and to keep my promise to my lovely

girlfriend. That is the weakness in my workshops but not in the way.

Sex and intimacy flow very easily out of this place. But I will have to

think, maybe there is a way to demonstrate this.

Anyway, it amazes me how good of friends we are and yet I still

haven't cleared all this up with you. I do actually think it is a

tribute to how much fun we have together that we never get around to

talking much 'shop'. It's either that or my inability to articulate it

all. However, it should all be clear once I finish my book.

1.1 Juggler’s 90 – 10 Rule

Keep in mind Juggler's 90-10 rule. That is, you must be prepared to

provide 90 percent of the conversation at the beginning of an

interaction with a woman until she is warmed up. If you go in and give

50%, expecting she will give 50% - like most conversations in the non-

PU world, you will be disappointed. She will give only 10%. That adds

up to 60%. Not enough and the conversation will stall and collapse.

On approach PUA should follow the 90-10 rule. That is you must be

prepared to supply 90% of the conversation because she will only give

you 10%. She is experiencing a dramatic state change and needs time to

warm up to the conversation.

Most guys fail to realize this and work from the frame that they should

supply 50% like a normal conversation. Of course, the girl only gives

10%. That adds up to 60% which is not the 100% which you need. The

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