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Foundations of Inner Game II:

THE POWER OF APPRECIATION

Creating Profound Connection

INTRODUCTION

Welcome back to one of the greatest life journeys I know

ofYou’reabouttotakethenext step towards an

inspiring, fulfilling and rich life, which you can share with

the kind of women who truly move your spirit.

I’vespentmostofmylifelookingfordeeperanswers

about how I can truly step into the man I know I can be.

I’veconsistentlyfoundthatthemoreI find answers and

grow through this work, the more amazing the caliber of

woman who shows up in my life.

I believe that the women who come into your life are a direct reflection of the state of your inner world. And the more

magnificent the women that show up in your life the more you’re truly stepping into who you are.

Butlet’sbeclear

I’m not talking about guys who have beautiful women.

I ‘m talking about guys whohavebeautifulwomenwhoare completely radiant andelectrifiedinthatman’sPresence.

Big difference.

Ifyou’rejustheretolearnpickuplinesthenpleasedonatethismaterialtoabuddyofyourswho truly wants to have

incredibly authentic, wild, sexy and fulfilling life experiences. You’llbedoinghimagreatfavor

I invite you toreceivethismaterialnotas“usefulinformation”persebutasanother“logonthefire”ofyourongoing

journey of self-transformation.

Noneofwhatwetalkabouthereisreally“informationforyourbrain”— it’sdesignedtogiveyoua“knowingness”that

youcanfeelinyourbodyIfthatwasn’tthecaseitwouldn’tbetrueInnerGameWork

The best way to make use of this book is to read a chapter, watch the video and then read the chapter again. This is rich

materialandyou’llintegrate it differently than if it was just learning a physical or logical skill. This is the kind of stuff that

when you get it - really get it - you embody it .

Makesuretogiveyourselftheopportunityto“absorb”thismaterialbytaking your time. Let it soak in and permeate

you.

If you have questions, struggles, insights, or epiphanies as you go through this book, post them on the Inner Circle Online

Forum. It greatly increases your learning to interact with other guys who are on the journey with you. (Ifyouaren’tyet a

member of the AMP Inner Circle Program, you can join by going to:

http://www.authenticmanprogram.com/innercircle.html)

Onward!

Garrison Cohen, AMP Facilitator

Garrison Cohen

V.P. of Development

Authentic Man Program

P.S. The material presented in the accompanying DVDs is not from the Authentic Man Program Intensive. The Intensive

is a 3 day course limited to 12 men at a time, which does deeper and more personal work than what you see in these

DVD’s

DISC 1:

EMOTIONAL DEPTH AND SEXUAL CONNECTION

INTRODUCTION

We begin with a short recap of where we left off: “The

PowerofPresence”andourfive-foundation model

called the Holarchy.

It starts with Presence and moves outward from there.

Sobeforewebeginppreciationlet’sstartwith

Presence.

Presence lays the basis for Appreciation, which lays the

basis for Integrity, andsoon.

ONE-MINUTE RECAP : HOW ALL THIS GOT STA RTED

Bryan had a pretty good life in Colorado. He was doing OK with dating, and he did some fly fishing on the way to work at

his cushy corporate job. Then he met Decker, who’dhadamajorlifeepiphanythattotallychangedhisrelatingwith

women.

Bryan started to realize how much more he could be experiencing with women because he watched Decker

continuously draw beautiful women with ridiculously little effort. Although, atthetimeDeckerwasn’teven sure what

he was doing to create that.

Mainly because of Bryan’sconstantinterrogation of Decker, they

started to break it all down over the course of a few years. Everything

really came together after they met some radiant, feminine, and

blazingly insightful women, who gavethemhonest“reflection”of

how they were experiencing them as men.

Theyrealizedthatwomencouldseemen’s barriers, fears, and truths

better than we could ever see them ourselves.

Bryansays“Iwaswaymorefrustratedthan

Ilookinthispicture”

And unlike other women, who can feel it but not articulate it clearly,

these women could explain it in a way that had Decker and Bryan be

able to see it for themselves. And from that came AMP.

And there you have it.

From there we went into great depth about what Presence is.

Theshortansweristhatit’saboutwakinguptoyourlifeyourown

experience, and the moment-by-moment unfolding of your

interactionsMostguysdon’trealize the degreetowhichtheyaren’t

fully Present with women.

When most guys finally do experience more Presenceit’sasifthe

world suddenly comes into focus for the first time.

Untilthenthey’relikeafishswimmingin water, never really

questioning“HeywhatisthisstuffI’msubmergedin?”Itisonly

when our world comes into sharper focus that we can start to realize

how out-of-focus its been until now.

In our work, insights and experiences like this occur frequently, especially with women. This is what we refer to as

“ seeingthematrix”

It’s what happens when you are Present. Presence is also experienced on a physical, emotional, and sometimes

downright metaphysical level.

In Foundations of Inner Game II, we move on to Appreciation, where you can instantly deepen your connections with

women emotionally and physically.

You’llnotonlylearnhowtocreateanenvironmentthatisripeforlustandturn-onwithwomenbutyou’lllearnhow

cultivating your natural curiosity can be a major key to deeper connection and intimacy with women.

CHAPTER 1: EMOTION AL DEPTH AND SEXUAL CONNECTION

Chances are, you may not fully comprehend that every

time you interact with a woman you’rehavinga“shared

experience” Imaginethatyou’reatapartyandfrom

across the room you can see two people meeting for the

first time and having an interaction.

From this viewpointit’seasytoseethesetwopeopleare

havinga“sharedexperience” Yet if you were to suddenly

transport yourself behind one of their eyes, the last thing

they would generally be aware of is that they are sharing

this experience with another person .

In other words most of our interactions, whether people

realize it or not, becomes all about them. The key to having far richer interactions with women is to break away from

this limiting perspective.

Whether your interaction with another person is subtle or extreme, every time you interact with another human being

you’re sharing an experience with that person.

So the question arises“Howeverthatexperience unfolds, whatever it looks like, how are you going to“be”withthat

experience?”

You have two fairly straightforward options here:

1. You can be a “No,” and reject what is happening during that experience. Or

2. You can be a “Yes,” and welcome and embrace that experienceIfyouarea“yes”womenwillsaythings like“I

feel so gotten”or“Ifeelsoseen”or“Hesawrightintome,”etc

ndifyou’renotdoing#2thenyou’re most likely doing #1. While the difference between the two seems incredibly

subtle on the surface, it always has a massive impact on your relating with women.

Being a “No” involves reactively withdrawing from an interaction, or trying to control, fix, or otherwise change it.

Being a “Yes” involves noticing and allowing whatever’sarisinginthemomentFromthisplaceyoumaychooseto

withdraw, or take steps to effect a change, but from a place of free choice, not from a place of reaction.

Throughthecourseofthismaterialyou’llseetheextremedifferencethislittleconcept makes in pretty much every

aspect of your life, especially in relating with women.

EVERYONE WANTS TO BE “SEEN”

When you’rebeingwithwomenthisway, you can notice deep truths about them that have them feel profoundly

“seen”byyou. If this sounds like something only for serious relationships, think again. Even in the briefest interactions

having womenfeel“seen”isakeytopowerfulconnectionandcan have them remembering you for years!

TakeaglanceatthebackofaCosmo(Women’s)magazinesometime when you’re in line at the market. Notice how

many ads there are for psychics and tarot card readers in the back. Why? Because women are fascinated to learn about

themselves.

Lateronyou’llwatch Shana get an enormous insight into her relationship with her father through one little question

that Bryan asks her.

When a man is Present and in Appreciation of a woman all kinds of things about her start to become clear. If you tell her

thosethingsshecanfeelreally“seen”ndnotbecauseyou’remaking her think thatyou’rereallyseeingherIt’s

because you’re really seeing who she is and she can feel it. And that is a rare experience for a woman. Often times the

more physically beautiful they are the more they tend to be objectified by men, who only see their exterior without any

regard for who they are as a person. This is a common complaint amongst women.

I know, at first, this could sound a little flowery and Hallmark-greeting-card-like. Stick with this stuff because, if you do,

you’llhavea100%greaterchanceofseeingitallcomeintofocus(andinthatsamemomentyou’llalsorealizejusthow

out-of-focus you’vespentyourlifeuntilnow)

Yeahit’salotliketheMatrix

Now, even thoughyou’llseelotsofexamplesof how to do this and definitely how not to do it , keep in mind that there’s

no cookie-cutter mold, system, orstrategyfor“ doing ”thisright

Youcan’t“ DO ”appreciationandhavewomen feel truly connected with you. Howeveryoucan“ BE ”inppreciation

This will come up a few times more soifthisisconfusingrightnowdon’tsweatit

AN EXAGGERATED EXAMP LE

“Doing” Appreciation could look like a woman at a birthday party receiving giftsandsaying“thankyou”withanoverly-

cheerysmilethatdoesn’tseemrealndeven though it looks likeshe’sreally happy about the gifts she was given, you

can feel on a deeper level that she wasn’treallyallthat“impacted”

“Being” in Appreciation could look like a father saying“thankyou”to a fireman whojustsavedhisson’s life. The words

aren’tthatspecialbut the look in thefather’seyesthedepthand resonance of his words, and the feeling that radiates

from him, says it all.

There are millions of possible examples and I purposely picked two extreme ones to illustrate a point. Imagine that you

take the woman from the birthday party and you put her in place of the father, thanking the fireman. Imagine her

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