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nic NO
FACTOR
the art of saying
Jo Ellen Grzyb and Robin Chandler
THE
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Published in 2008 by Fusion Press,
a division of Satin Publications Ltd
101 Southwark Street
London SE1 0JF
UK
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www.visionpaperbacks.co.uk
Publisher: Sheena Dewan
First published in Great Britain by Simon and Schuster Ltd, 1997
© Jo Ellen Grzyb and Robin Chandler 2008
The right of Jo Ellen Grzyb and Robin Chandler to be identified
as the authors of the work has been asserted by them in accordance
with the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act of 1988.
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced,
stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any
means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise,
without prior written permission of the publisher.
A catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library.
ISBN: 978-1-9054745-36-4
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Cover and text design by ok?design
Printed and bound in the UK by
J H Haynes & Co Ltd, Sparkford
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CONTENTS
Acknowledgements
vii
Introduction
1
PART 1: Setting The Scene
15
Introduction
17
1 Are You Too Nice For Your Own Good?
19
2 You Weren’t Born Nice
45
3 Whose Reality Is It Anyway?
71
4 Not Nice/Not Nasty: Entering The Middle Ground
93
PA RT 2 : The Art of Saying No: Getting Your Choice Back
113
Introduction
115
5 I’m Sorry: How Language Keeps You Stuck
121
6 A Boundary Is Not A Barrier
141
7 Who’s On Top? Playing The Status Game
161
8 I Never Win: Making Conflict Work For You
189
9 That’s Not All There Is
209
Conclusion
237
The Art Of Saying No: Recapitulation
239
About The Authors
247
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