Basic Playboy • First understand Shark’s view of the world. We all live in one big society-induced matrix. From birth to death, our purpose in universe is to serve society and keep it moving forward. Why are the rock stars, actors, or just the high-school quarterback, can get so many girl flocking over them - even though realistically, they will not care for the girl like a normal guy would ? It is because they have proved themselves in the eyes of society, and now they can take their prize. • When you break the rules that are good for the whole, but not good for *you*, society kicks you so hard that you never think about going against the rules. This conditioning starts at an early age, in school, with your parents. • All this conditioning will only allow you to get girls on your level. You are not supposed to get 100 girls pregnant. You get lots of blockers in your head. Hot chicks are supposed to breed with hot guys, why ? Because hot chicks are healthy/perfect, and society wants her to breed with a similarly perfect guy to get strong, healthy kids. Those basic laws have been enforced for thousands of years, through natural selection.• [note from Connaissance]: hence the disapproving looks and disbelief when ppl see a very hot girl with a normal guy. It just seems unbelievable, it seems unnatural, it seems like a waste; it goes against our society conditioning, it’s not what we were taught to believe can happen.• Women look for the guy who is best for offspring – jerks are powerful, they could kill lions and protect the offspring.• The size of breast still matters today, i.e. even though we can feed baby healthily with artificial food, guys still want babes with big breasts. Same for women and the need for powerful guys.• By comparing the breast/hip rate, we make split second decisions about the women we meet. In the same way, women will make split second decisions about which guys can have access to her.• Rock stars have an advantage over you, not because of their car or yoths or bank accounts, but because their society program inside their head gives them permission to be confident and alpha [note from Connaissance: ie since they are considered rock stars, they know they can do crazy devious shit and it’s gonna be accepted, so they do it and they don’t give a shit. You don’t need to be a rockstar to give yourself that permission. It all comes down to how strong your frame is, if it’s strong enough, people will accept whatever you do. ].• If a guy lacks qualities in on area, he will try to compensate by working in another area that society finds good. That works until the law of diminishing returns hits you.• First mission : find the number of some girl that you like. If she already blew you off, that’s even better. Many guys are afraid to seduce women who blew them off, they will start yelling “Supplication !! Supplication !! Next her !! etc “. They run around like children, trying to sharpen their skills, but what skills are they sharpening ? They will also say “I will show her who is the prize, that will teach her a lesson”. By behaving like that, nothing is learned, and if you are the prize, then she is “sexing” you, not blowing you off. Never be afraid to seduce a girl who blew you off.• Call the girl and talk to her. You can be alpha on the phone too. If people are living with you, never excuse yourself. Open all doors to make sure everyone hears you. Before calling, don’t do any excusing moves like going to the toilet, drinking water, clearing your throat, whatever. Many guys get pain in the stomach and their heartbeat rises. You must calm down, cause there is no use trying to seduce a chick the way you would dismantle a bomb. She will see right through it and discard you immediately. Practice that until you manage it, call the same chick all the time if you want.• Are you afraid that everyone will know that you fuck chicks ? What kind of fear is that ? Society blocker. You friends/parents will try to destroy you. They are not doing it on purpose : they are zombies of society, and you have to fight them. Your best friends will talk to you while you are on the phone with a chick, they will try to sabotage you. They are not aware of it, but they are an instrument of society programming.• Be sure to put at least one compliment about her character; girls want a guy who is an alpha, but also cares about her a little bit. Many guys are afraid to be “supplicating” , well, you shouldn’t waste a lot of time thinking about how not to supplicate (me : that’s another form of supplication), because it isn’t not-supplicating that will get you chicks. That is like saying, let’s get rich by saving money. It’s like this : you are the man, you choose the woman that you want. Do not make the mistake of pretending not to care for her, she will see right through it. When a girl asks you why you called or why you ask her out, it is no time for games, it is time to tell the truth, but in a polite way, almost romantic. Don’t say, because you’re hot, say “because in your presence, I feel happy”. Make up a compliment for her to make her happy.• If you call a girl who thinks you are a loser, don’t be afraid she will not change her mind, she will if you do things the right way. She will quickly forget the past if you start behaving alpha. The other way around happens too, if she is in love with you but then you start being a wimp, she will stop liking you.• Girls can’t do much about their looks, but we can do a lot to change our attitude.• Don’t block your number when you call. If you get her answering machine : “Hey, it’s Shark, I want to see you these days”. Don’t prepare yourself for the message. Or send a text message :”Hey, let’s go out”. Nobody does that, they all make problems for themselves. You are a man, so what if everybody finds out about your interest ? Don’t be afraid if people find out that you do fuck girls.• This kind of SMS is a frame rehearsal. She never gets SMS like that if she is hot. She is used to get msgs like this “hey, I am a loser, and I’m free on Monday from 6 to 8 and Friday from 6 to 7; in the meantime, I have lots of activities and schedule and an interesting life, and that is your only chance, if not, there are 10 girls waiting for me in the line”. • STOP THIS. This is self-destructing behavior. It is total society program speaking. Remember, a hot chick knows how to judge men very well, and the last thing she wants is a faker. There is no “faking til you make it”, but there is faking until the other average guy gets the chick. Many guys make the big mistake of thinking it’s cool to show off with their fake confidence, they go for the “next, next chick” behaviour. Faking it, you are just showing off your own insecurities.• It is not a girl’s fault if you have been a supplicator all your life. It’s your own fault if many chicks made you buy presents and dinners for nothing. Stop thinking about all the frustration you went through and start approaching a girl like the beautiful creature she really is. • All chicks are lonely, delicate creatures. When you call her, chances are she is in her fantasy world of the prince on his white horse. You have to play in this fantasy world. Now, does the prince excuse himself for calling, to her or to himself? Is the prince afraid to send messages ? No, he is not. And his messages are not excuses like : “I was wondering, would you like to spend an hour with me on Wednesday ?” Is this a prince calling ? No, that’s an excuser calling. If he was sure of himself, he wouldn’t shoot himself in the foot and limit himself to an hour of conversation. The excuser may think he is displaying a busy life, but he is really busy with the business of excusing.• So, when you leave a msg, express your interest. Nobody does that. They are all excusers.• Example of conversation he had with a GF whose sister he fucked. o “Hi, sweetie, it’s such a beautiful day, no need to feel bad” o “Liar, how could you, etc”o “Please don’t get mad, I would do anything for you. I am just human. I like her, but I like you more. You neglected my feelings all the time, and I didn’t get any love from you”o “How come you didn’t say that before ?”o “Well, let’s talk about it, let’s meet at …”o “I can’t, I have blabla”o “Ok, let’s meet tmrw at our favorite place…”o “OK”• Never let her engage you in the drama, you are always feeling good and positive, so they will gravitate towards you, ‘cause their life are pretty dull and boring.• Calling girls that blew you off, you will feel the presence of society programming inside your head, which will try to block your attempts to get hot chicks.• You must be able to kill the society programme in your head while calling on the phone because later it will get harder. The programme must be killed now in your home, so you will have the necessary power to overcome bigger challenges. You can’t get the best in the club to leave with you if you can’t do that. Call as many chicks as you can and practice. • Second mission. Going to a club and using “I like you” game. Opening sentences:o “I like you and I would like to get to know you.”o “I like you girls and I would like to get to know you.”o “You look beautiful, I would like to get to know you.”o “I like you girls, I will talk to you know.”• “If you look at me like that, you can also talk to me” – when a chick accidentally looks at you; This must be done fast, don’t wait, don’t hesitate for even a split second. It must seem like you are such a powerful alpha guy that you could have approached her anyway. She should have her eyes look into your eyes. It is like she is a prey and she has just revealed her location. Keep her eyes locked into yours and go for her while pushing other people out of your way. If you take time to handle your fear, it won’t happen, you won’t do it after X minutes. You have done nothing initially, and now you are trying to look cool ? Forget it. Do it immediately or don’t do it.• Then you can ask questions about herself. After you approach her, she will be laughing and happy, for a moment. You must not give her time to think about who the hell you are, what will her friends think, what will other people think when they see her having fun with a stranger, you must keep her attention on you, and the best way to do that is to ask a simple question about herself “where did you learn to dance like that?” , whatever. • Say your lines from a place of power, cause you are the prince, aren’t you ?• Hot chicks have enormous power, cause they are so few of them. They will always be on the center. They can choose with ugly chick friend will serve them tonight.• It sometimes happens that you approach a hot chick but she can’t talk to you because she is there with her BF, then she introduces you to her girlfriends. Don’t make mistakes here. Don’t tell her friends where you know her from. There is no need to justify yourself on any way. • If the chicks is walking, you have to intercept her. Imagine she is walking on an imaginary line. Find the shortest way to that line and get on it. As she is closing on you, she will of course suppose that you will move away, because her majestic beauty gives her an aura around her. But you will walk towards her in an alpha way and check her out, cause remember, you are the selector. Then you use the following shark move : you must stop her using both hands. Say “Stop” or “Please stop”. Then use your opener.• Act good when you open. If you are a low-energy, hopeless guy, she will never want to be with you. Pretend you are an happy guy and you enjoy life, if you can do that for the first 5 minutes, she will feed your enthusiasm by giving you IOIs : eye gazes, adjusting her lipstick, licking her lips, checking you out from head to toe, accidentally touching you, etc. So before you were in a bad state of mind, but by forcing yourself out of your state, you started receiving good signals which are further helping you getting out of your bad state of mind. Kissing a girl or fucking her ends many bad thoughts inside you and is the cure for many problems. • Sometimes they are a bit too shocked. For years they are dreaming of a guy who is not an excuser but a real alpha who will express his interest in them. They have prepared themselves for years. Now they are afraid to fuck it up and spoil the fantasy.• You have to be totally congruent.• “Why are you alone ?” “I am alone because I came here to meet some super girls”. Go out alone (that’s an order), don’t excuse yourself and tell anyone who ask what you are doing. If you cannot say it, how could you pull it off ? If you go with a normal guy, then the society programme in your heads will try to destroy you. How will it do that ? You will start convincing yourself that the hot chick you are trying to get is actually not so hot, or analyzing how your last sarge didn’t work, or arguing over who should approach the hot chick over there. • Instantly go to the place in the club which is elevated and with lots of lights. The hottest chicks want to be seen and that’s where they will be.• Hot chicks will not be alone in the clubs. The hot chicks have those loser admirers that drive them around and buy them drinks, hoping that she will one day get drunk and they will score. Hot chicks can have dozens of those servants/admirers. They supplicate all the time for nothing. Usually they are in the shadows, lurking like trolls, watching her move, her tight ass, her hair moving around. They will not fuck her but will do anything to ruin your day.• Jump on the pedestal, and facing her, go directly to her ear, touching both her shoulders with your hand, and use your opener. Now comes the moment when many guys fuck it up. Many guys can get there, but then they are lost and don’t know what to do, they expect the girl to take them by hand and go to bed. Remember you are the leader, you initiate things. You must do all the work by yourself, just it is not work, it just seems like it in you head because the society program will use anything to stop you. • Then you talk to her immediately. Get into conversation, so any BF or admirers looking will think you know each other from before, and will not dare stopping you. Hot chicks have a lot of experience, and they will know exactly what you are doing, but they will enjoy it. • Girls go into trance when they are dancing, so just talk simple and happy stuff to her. Talk into her ear. You must use your talking skills while dancing. Just a few remarks said tactfully in her ear will make all the difference.• You can go 2 ways, get her off the dancefloor and kiss, or kiss her here and there. • Touch her with both arms from the armpits to the butt, touching gently her breast on the side; this is not groping but will get her aroused. • Compliment her on how she has a magical smile. They really buy into this smile stuff.• Never expect it to be easy. The hottest chicks in the clubs don’t surrender easily. Why should they ? They have choice.• The kind of “leaving you, going to the toilet” behaviour will happen a lot. Hot chicks can’t take any kind of responsibility. No matter how much they like you, they pretend they do not.• If a chick was dancing a lot before you go for her, don”t get her out of this familiar state.• If you think you can go for a kiss, go for it. If she moves away, have no fear, you are still better off than before. She moved away because you were an excuser, but by trying to kiss, you are not an excuser anymore.• You will see some panics in the shadow, it’s her friends trying to unite and destroy you. Continue to kiss and concentrate on her. Then invite her for a drink but remember to do it politely; you 2 have just met, so don’t assume that because you have kissed her, you can treat her like you have been together for a year. In the same way, when planning your next date, don’t assume that just because you have kissed, she wants to see you tomorrow. She probably won’t be addicted that fast, and then you would show her that you don’t have any other girl in your life.• Older hot chicks will get more and more frustrated, because they meet 10 excusers a day, while dreaming for an alpha guy. Hence the mean look on their faces.• When you use these openers, they will fall in trance because they heard something they have deep belief for; what you said matched with their internal referential system. In a trance state, people are very receptive to what you say or do to them. Take advantage of this and pull her in a quiet corner.• Her ugly friends will be angry at you for taking her away from them. They will want you to acknowledge them and waste your time talking to them. Just one look at them and they will retreat to their misery. One MEAN look.• If a chick is standing at the bar, don’t come near her, order a beer and then blurt something out. Don’t do that, that’s for losers. All those losers in disco try to do just that. A chick is by the bar and an army of excusers will come to her side to drink beer, and then the most courageous of them will say “hey, you come here often, sugarpants ?” • When you see a chick in a situation like that, don’t be intimidated by the guys on her side, and don’t wait your turn, don’t stand in line in order to approach her. Who are they ? Only some wimps. So don’t excuse yourself with something like : “well they were here first, they might get mad, blablabla”. They will never know you are a stranger. Walk straight to her, put your hand on her shoulder, and turn her to face you; those girls are like stones, how you put them, they will stand. If you start talking without turning her, she will continue to ignore you. Why ? If a man isn’t powerful enough to move her around, then she doesn’t want him.• Never go asking “would you like a drink?”. That happened 1000s of times before and only a desperate guy would do that without even knowing her.• If a guy sends her a drink, laugh together at the guy’s expense.• Stop serving society, and start serving yourself.• If the hottest chick is on the dancefloor, then go for her. If not, don’t waste your time there. You are not going out to dance. • Group of guys stand in one big circle, the circle of lamers, and they try to look cool and dance cool. Then a hot chick comes to the dancefloor, and the lamer circle panic, who will approach her ? The bravest guy goes for it and starts dancing with her, grinding, doing silly and funny moves. After pretending to be a cool dancer for one minute, he will say “you come here often?” or “would you like to join me for a drink ? You are so hot !”. This grinding on the dancefloor is the only thing that your competition knows how to do. Of course he will get blown off; it usually doesn’t help that his friends are laughing at him while he is trying to seduce her. Then the next lamer goes for it, and slide his butt sideways into hers for a “funny” effect, then he goes “ I think I saw you here before” ; now the girl knows he is an excuser.• Your competition can only approach on the dancefloor, because that’s the only thing their society programme allows them to do. So, most of your competition is there. They have no clue how to compete off the dancefloor. Why compete ? Hit the dancefloor only if the hottest chick is there.• Impressing the girls with society values is not the way to go. Is it worth it to spend 5 hours a day on your muscles or football practice ? They boast that they are getting ready for summer, to get pussy, yeah right ! It’s not worth it to work so hard on this just so you can give yourself approval to approach and fuck chicks ! Only one of a thousand will make it to the top, and even those will remain excusers in their heart. • When you get your first hot chick, remember that in the years to come, she will not become any prettier.
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