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Boosting Your Sex Drive
Mr. Manpower's Guide to Overall Manhood
Enhancement,
VERSION 2.0
Boosting Your Sex Drive
Some of you may not need this section, however if you have problems with this,
you will most likely need to get this settled before you can start any of the other
exercises. I know some people that, even in their sixties and sometimes
seventies, still feel the need to ejaculate every day. Then I know people like me,
who in his early twenties, almost completely lost the urge to have sex. Scary,
huh? But this advice could work for anyone who is starting to see a decrease in
libido (sex drive).
If you notice your sex drive has decreased or disappeared, mixed with feelings of
weakness and depression, you might have a decreased testosterone level.
Certain other things may cause a lack of sex drive, including lack of sleep,
medication, disease, or being out of shape.
Too much stress also reduces sex drive. Stress increases the stress hormone,
known as Cortisol, which in excess causes your body to turn into fight-or-flight
mode. After a little while of this, your testosterone levels plummet. Get some
exercise (cardio or weight training); it is a good form of overcoming stress and
depression. Meditation is very useful to help clean up your mind, which in turn
makes your body feel better.
Alcohol lowers sex drive as well, and it is a cumulative effect. Lots of alcohol over
a period of time can literally demolish a sex drive. Now remember, every body is
different. While some people arenÔt affected at all by the above causes, just a
couple of drinks are enough to destroy another person's urge and ability to have
sex. The good news is with some rehab and cleansing, your drive will return to
normal. Try to limit the nights you go out binge drinking.
Smoking marijuana has been found to reduce your testosterone levels for up to
24 hours after smoking, but your levels return to normal after that 24 hour
period. This could accumulate as well.
Massaging your testicles daily in the shower is a good way to keep your
testosterone producing factories in top shape. This does not require any specific
technique; just warm your testicles under the hot water, and gently massage each
one between your fingersÉevery once in a while, grab the skin between the
testicles and pull down or out slightly and hold. Switch back and forth between
massaging and pulling. Two to three minutes is good enough.
Weightlifting, with heavy weights, gives you a major boost to your testosterone
levels and sex drive. It has to be heavy weights (in relation to how much you can
lift), like weight where you can only do 6 or 7 repetitions. Do a few sets of these,
and you will feel the effects immediately (make sure to warm up with lighter
weight, of course). The muscle groups that produce the most testosterone when
worked out are the chest, back and legs. Different bench press workouts and
squats are highly recommended. Build some muscle in your glutes and quads,
and youÔll literally have a testosterone storage built down there.
Make sure not to work out the same muscle groups one day after the other; like
donÔt work out quads two days in a row. Three days break after working out is
even better. Not giving your muscles enough time to rest leads to overtraining,
and overtraining involved a reduction of up to 40% of your testosterone levels.
Aerobic exercises are good for getting your blood circulation going and
increasing your endurance, but donÔt overdo it. Too much can actually have the
opposite effect, a decrease in testosterone. Also having a lot of fat around the
stomach can cause a higher production of estrogen. However, the workouts, and
the following advice can counteract that effect.
The more muscle you have present on your body, the faster you actually tend to
burn fat.
A great supplement for testosterone production is ÑZMAÒ. It contains Zinc,
Monomethionine Aspartate, Magnesium Aspartate and vitamin B. All this stuff
sounds like Chinese to me, but I know for sure that after I had taken it for a
couple of weeks, it gave me a crazy boost in sex drive. I also lift crazy amounts of
weight thanks to this. I weigh about 155 pounds and I managed to lift 275 lbs
one time by myself in bench press, without any help from a spot. As a side effect
it also helps facilitate sleep.
As I mentioned, lack of sleep has a diminishing effect on sex drive as well. It also
raises your Cortisol levels. If you are having problems sleeping: reduce your
stress, eat better, get some exposure to sunlight for natural Vitamin D, which
produces melatonin (your sleepy hormone), make sure to exercise (no more than
two hours before sleeping), and cut out the TV at least an hour before sleeping.
Sleep is essential to sex drive! If you are still having problems, please visit your
doctor.
Flaxseed oil in capsule form is great as well. Barry Bonds claims he took this,
trying to cover up his steroid use. ThatÔs how powerful this stuff is. It contains
Omega-3 fatty acids, which is pretty much only found in certain fish and nuts, but
is necessary for brain function, testosterone production and carrying estrogen
out of the body. Fish Oil is another complimentary fatty acid to the Flaxseed Oil.
I take a couple of these a day, and they tend to have a calming effect on the
mind, as well as helping out significantly with the sex drive and workouts. Make
sure to buy Flaxseed Oil, and not just Flaxseeds.
Two natural herbs that are known to naturally boost testosterone function are
Tribulus Terrestris, and Tongkat Ali, the Malaysian Ginseng. There are many
Ñlibido enhancingÒ herbs out there, but these two have been shown in studies to
boost testosterone and libido, and they have minimal side effects, if any. Tongkat
Ali may cause insomnia due to the fact that itÔs a stimulant, so itÔs best to take it
in the mornings. Swanson is a reliable brand for these natural libido enhancers,
and for a very affordable price.
Although it would be great to take all of these supplements, it is not necessary
and in some cases may be too much. You should take only one out of the
following three: Tongkat Ali, Tribuls Terrestris, or ZMA. Flaxseed can compliment
any one of these. They are all conveniently available for purchase on
www.amazon.com
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As mentioned, nuts and fish have those fatty acids which are beneficial. Also,
green vegetables like broccoli, and especially lettuce, boost production of
testosterone, and therefore sex drive.
As a matter of fact, you may want to increase your levels of fat intake just a bit.
Eat that bag of tortilla chips, or order that bacon on your sandwich. To produce
an appropriate amount of testosterone, 30% of your daily intake should be fats.
Be careful to regulate this though; donÔt overdo it to where you are accumulating
stomach fat. Stomach fat=bad for testosterone. I know, itÔs harder said than
done sometimes.
Watching pornographic material without ejaculating has been shown to provide a
temporary boost to testosterone as well. Watch some before a workout (without
ejaculating) and youÔll notice a difference in your strength and endurance. It will
also increase your mental libido in general.
Following the above guidelines, I, myself have gone from not wanting to have sex
a couple of years ago, to being filled with those manly urges again. You will start
to feel the same.
Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety
I remember it like it was yesterday. My friend Carlos and I took these two girls
out, Liz and Erika. The night started off a little boring, sitting around on the
beach, drinking some beers; a little awkward. After some loosening up, things
turned out for the better. I came up with the idea of going to the hot tub by
CarlosÔ apartment, and the girls were all for it. By this time, Liz and me had
already made out, and were flirting heavily. We got to the hot tub, and we all
stripped down to our underwear, and got in. Man, this girl was looking good.
She had some big breasts and a sexy face. She was on top of my penis, and I was
noticing that it wouldnÔt get really hard.
So I started worrying, I started putting pressure on the situation. I wanted to
change environments, so we went to my car. In the backseat of my car, still
nothing happened. My penis was at like 15 percent hard, and it was
embarrassing. She was a cool chick, so she was understanding and mentioned
that I probably smoked to many cigarettes, and that happens. I also started
thinking maybe it was the alcohol that wouldnÔt let me get an erection.
So we tried it again on a later date at her house. This time the pressure was really
on. No drinking, no smoking; I still didnÔt get hard. So we tried it at my place
and the same situation occurred. In a fit of desperation I even went to the gas
station and bought some red bull and took a couple of ginseng vials...nothing.
I gave up, embarrassed, and worried that I may have had an erectile dysfunction.
Meanwhile I went back to an ex-girlfriend that I was comfortable with, and I saw
my erection worked like magic. No problem at all.
So I established that it was psychological...all in my head. This problem is known
as sexual performance anxiety. And with some research to help the situation, I
came across the following advice: Do not worry about the erection; do not even
think about it. Instead just concentrate on getting horny, as horny as possible. If
you like tits, play with her tits, suck on them, do whatever. Act like you are
watching a porno and no one is watching. Concentrate on what makes you
horniest, just get that strong horny feeling, and the erection will come along
without a problem, on its own.
Think about this: the woman you are sharing this sexual experience with has
accepted you completely. For her to open herself up to you to the point where
she will have sex with you, she is giving herself completely to you. She wants to
be the reason that you have an orgasmÉas a matter of fact, she wants to be the
cause of your orgasm.
When you are home alone watching a porno, IÔm pretty sure you can get yourself
very horny. Most likely, when you are going to masturbate till orgasm, you are
able to easily achieve an erection, because you know whatÔs coming. Well, you
need to look at your sexual partner like she is your porno. Relax, enjoy her, and
know that she wants to be the reason that you orgasmÉbegin to view sex like
this.
Also, donÔt lie to yourselfÉadmit that you are a little scared, and accept it; it will
be easier to work with. If you act like you are all calm and under control, you are
lying to yourself, and your mind and body are not working with each other.
Admit that you are nervous, but know that you are going to work with yourself to
overcome it. DonÔt judge yourself harshly for what you are feeling; it is natural to
be anxious in these types of situations.
Another thing that can help you overcome this sexual anxiety is to become as
comfortable with your partner as possibleÉ.donÔt worry about your
ÑperformanceÒ, just connect with your partner, and you will feel more
comfortableÉfeeling comfortable is a prerequisite for proper erections.
Have fun with sexÉadd some humor to the situationÉthis can help Ñtake the
edge offÒ. Almost every guy I know has been through this situation at least once.
DonÔt put any pressure on the situation, just relax, TAKE YOUR TIME, have fun,
and get as horny as youÔd like. The erection will come along. Then after you
have sex a couple of times with this partner, you will be much more comfortable
with her, and your penis will come along much easier from then on.
Know that this performance anxiety will disappear in time, as you continue having
sex with this same partner, especially after you achieve your first orgasm with her.
Psychologically and physiologically you will feel that she is the provider of your
orgasm, which will cause you to get aroused and achieve erections much quicker.
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