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These basic rules are merely THEORIES that fit the MODEL of the way the playing field is like. The MODEL

is only a representation of the real world. In other words, these RULES weren't handed to us on a stone

tablet by a guy coming down from a mountain. They were figured out by literally thousands of trial and

error APPROACHES (mostly error). To a PLAYER, there are no such thing as failures, only results. We learn

from our mistakes and use that knowledge in the future to modify our next approach.

FORMAT:

Dress

Go out

find

approach - 3sec rule - hi

INTRO script - elvis

main body script #1 music game

main body script #2

main body script #3

CLOSE - kiss close and # close

Leave - or eject

This format is for EVERY girl you wish to meet.

1. find

2. meet

3. attract

4. close

Pick-up lines are shit (Usually).

Refrain from sitting if at all possible.

when you see her, show her a smile, confidence, coyness, charm, be welldressed, look just a little shy,

and be friendly. dont PICK HER UP. dont HIT onher. dont compliment her. Just BE. Like when you are with

a good friend.Then tell her you intend on bringing her with you to a get together.

RULE: NEVER give your # only. get hers or TRADE, but NEVER just give yours.This IS the hardest thing to

do ... FIND them. Imaginethe difficulty for a moose in the forest. Its the same for some guys. You have to

roam around and FIND your potential mate. I KNOW she is out there.There is a 19 year old girl who would

LOVE you - she is even within 50 milesof you now. Get a map. Draw a circle. Search this out batman style

- you know - with a map on the batcave wall and the deriddling computer.for the not knowing what to say

thing: write a small outline of topics of discussion.

Here is my example:

20 min - question game

5 min - the music game

2 min - elvis and his hair

15 min - esp - is it real?

5 min - titanic connection pattern

5 min - the ant farm I bought for my niece and what I learned

10 min - my friend Tal likes this girl but is having problems ...

10 min - My other friend's girl became a stripper - what do you think about that?

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These are TOPICS of discussion that althogether run over an HOUR!

have you told any stories to a buddy on the phone? well give the story a title and write that on a list to

put in your pocket or wallet. This TOPICS OUTLINE can be referred to while she is right there. You go into

your wallet and check something then continue talking. She wont know you have a cheat sheet.

ALWAYS carry a pad and pen with you. consider learning sleight of hand with a pen. This will come in

handy OFTEN. Take the pen and before you give it you say, "check this out" and make it vanish. That's a

coy and playful surprise. You need to be better at disarming them with humor. You CANNOT enter with

SEX on the BRAIN. NO HITTING. NO PICKING UP. Have fun, make them laugh and convey confidence,

connection, smile and humor. Then they will want you because every other guys doesn't do this. They do

shit like give beers and other stereotypical mating ritual things. You don't do that and you are IN baby IN.

Honest. You haven't had a chance to work the club PROPERLY. You do NOT have to be a 'mack'. Swear.

SOLUTION: smile. When she looks fo rhte very FIRST time, smile BIG and say "Hi." THAT's the 3 second

rule. You will get used to saying hi and smiling to EVERY beautiful girl everywhere you go. No you already

have come off as playful and pleasant. If you miss this first opportunity to do this, you risk STALING out

the girl. That is what you keep getting yourself into. You STALE the entry so you feel awkward to

approach. Why? Because you know she knows you have sex on your brain. You have no other reason to

approach her. That's STALE. Now if you smiled and said hello in the first 3 seconds of seeing her, then you

can immediately start chatting. Its natural this way.

"My spoon is dirty. (Pause for impact then show a dirty spoon andlook at it like its really scary.) My

kingdom for a clean spoon. What am I talking about? My kingdom 'is' a spoon. A dirty spoon at that. What

should I do now? Im at a loss! Quickly, lets team up and solve this issue together. I'll do the delegating.

You do the field work. No, I'll be Molder, you be Scully."

use the elvis bit on the potential boyfriend. Everyone with the girl must be disarmed FIRST. They are to

like you first. When they are laughing or you feel they are not a problem, then its all good. You can

address the entire group, but remember to pay LITTLE attention to the target.

Sure. Just dont pay particular attention to any ONE girl. In fact, pay more attention to the ugliest and

work your way up. This is to disarm the obstacles to the one you prefer. If a woman is with a guy, you

must approach HIM first. To direct your attention first to HIM. If a woman is engaged in a conversation ...

hmmm, thing is, sometimes they are talking about serious stuff. Dont intrude if they are passionately

conversing. But if there are pauses and such, by all means ... enter

Go out 4 or 5 days a week. Dont carry a beer bottle in your hand like others.

Oh, remember the first time you drove? How scary it was? I remember how scared I was and I took a

course and I actually hated having to do it because I had the responsibility of driving on me. It was such

a horrid feeling. Even when I got my license it was a bad feeling. It was this anxiety whenever I knew I

HAD togo somewhere. In fact I got that again when I took a course last year on motorcycle driving. (Got

my license for bikes 6 months ago). Remember having been through this pain?

Did it go away with time? yes. Would it have if you only drove once a month? hardly.

Well, in order to get comfortable with the meeting girls thing, one must keep going out and trying. I am

talking 8 to 10 girls a DAY. If you devoted a good portion of your time to this endevour, you would finally

solve this problem, nip it in the butt, and be able to attain your desires before they pass you by. Its not a

looks thing. Its entirely style. Ever see Gone with the Wind? Rhett Butler - when you watch the movie,

notice how in real life that guy is actually sorta ugly. But he FOOLS us, he tricks us into believing he is

great looking by his sytle. He has the VIBE, the confidence, the demeaner, the cockiness of a man who

knows what he likes and how to get it. Watch the movie and think about HIM.

Whenever you feel the 'pain' of not wanting to go out and meet girls (even though you want to be in one

or more relationship - that just a choice thing) your body is sabotaging you. This feeling is not a sign to

say, "DONT GO. GIRLS are BAD." It rather is a very strong indicator that says, "Be careful, get good sleep

the night before, eat well, be awake and lucid for the challenge". Just like driving.

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get a microcassette player and tape ALL your approaches. Its also good because an approach is very

formatted: it has a beginning AND an ending. So does a tape. So when you see the girl, you think I want

HER. You scan the situation and say,

"OK, here goes" and you press record. And in you go. When it is over, you press stop. Its so perfect for

your brain. you are going in not to get the girl but rather to perfect the pick-up so you can have the

PERFECT tape to play to friends. They will listen and say, "FUCK. YOU are GOOD!" Then you show them a

picture of this girl that you fucked and she is a 10!. That is what its all about. Getting GOOD at this do

you see WHY I said to get her to YOUR place? You NEVER have control of the situation at HER place.

Phone calls and other unexpected things can excuse her from paying attention to you.

a neg hit is when you are talking to a girl and you do little things that show you arent completely

interested. EG: "are those nails real?" when she says no reply, "oh. well, they're still nice." You arent being

an asshole but the end result was to put her down. She will feel a little bad though she wont think you

meant it. You should drop 3 neg hits on a girl in order for her to want try to impress you harder and regain

her composure. Another one is this: "Is your hair real? Well its still nice." Remember to say this with a smile

as if you are oblivious to this being a neg hit. See? You ,are HITting on her, but its NEGativie. There are

many others that are great.

OK one more, do the pull my finger joke on her. Do it twice. Who the hell would do this to a girl who was a

10?!!! Only a man who is used to being around girls and doesnt care about getting this girl or not. And this

makes you different from the rest. You are toying with her - and it works!

My patience is usually unending ... EXCEPT! If someone doesnt TRY, I tell them to fuck off. I care only

about people's learning curves. I know everyone is at a different place on the learning curve but if they

aren't at least PLAYING the game, then they are wasting my valuable input and therefore my time. If

someone just tells me they arent getting girls because they are too scared, and they dont attempt any

way of beating the fear (excitement) and challenging themselves, then they can fuck off out of this NG

becausethey arent PLAYING the game. All this talk of ours in the NG is about the RULES and TACTICS and

STRATEGIES and GAMBITS of the game. But if you only READ the rules and never pPLAY the game then I

say, fuck off, right? Hey, one can SUCK at the game but at least they try. We've got teenagers that are

getting more pussy than some LAMO adults.

I stand firm on this EXCEPTION. "If someone doesnt have the guts to PLAY the game at all, they can fuck

off. If they have the guts to TRY, then I have the patience to offer advice on playing the game BETTER."

yeah I guess the legal thing is an issue, but so far its just for fun and I dont allow names to there is no

PROOF within the audio. I will always remove names and change them to NICKS anyway so Im pretty safe

there. You can edit the DETAILS out and edit the audio any way you want to make it shorter and such.

its realy fun too. to talk in the car about girls gets you PREPARED and to use it in the approach motivates

you to really think about what you are saying.

You have this notion that lying is an EVIL thing. You arent HURTING them by lying. You are using

deception - so what? All animals use deception at some form or another to increase their chances to

survive. Cheating and lying are evolutionarily advantageous. Read The Selfish Gene.

See my new perspective? Cheating and Lying is OK, so long as you benefit ... and the other doesnt DIE.

yeah I guess the legal thing is an issue, but so far its just for fun and I dont allow names to there is no

PROOF within the audio. I will always remove names and change them to NICKS anyway so Im pretty safe

there. You can edit the DETAILS out and edit the audio any way you want to make it shorter and such.

its realy fun too. to talk in the car about girls gets you PREPARED and to use it in the approach motivates

you to really think about what you are saying.

WOW. Ok, DONT give your CARD out anymore. EVER!!! What I mean by SELLING is that you are a product.

You have to package yourself so you look like the TYPICAL perfect man. Smiling and funny, confident and

connecting. Pleasant and not HITTING on them. Not buying them beers. Being a challenge. But like a

salesman, you have to get ready for the sale. you have to look good, shave and dress well (dont dress

LIKE a salesman - never wear a tie but dress well) have shiny shoes (very important) and be confident like

a salesman who knows his product and KNOWS that it sells well so the salesman doesnt even have to try.

he just has to make his presence known. Like a pepsi rep. Look good but dont say, "will you buy some

soda from me??? please???"

Pick up a spoon and walk up to the girl and say, "look at this. would you use this? look how dirty this is.

elvis wouldn't use this spoon." Remember to be more absorbed with your disgust with the spoon than the

conversation with her.

FIND is the hardest part of the game I think. They ARE out there. In fact, they are looking for YOU too.

They have just as tough a time as you. You have to make yourself available to them. I DARE you to go for

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a walk. Go from store to store on main st. and ask the cashiers where they would consider a good place.

These people are your resources. They know the area and can guide you. "Can I pick your brain for a

couple minutes about this area?" say that and they would most likely love to tell you more.

its unrealistic to attempt to identify SINGLE girls VISUALLY. If you arent sure, go in and approach. That is

a RULE to the game. Go in and make them think you are a great guy then ask them for details of their life.

Plan to go out JUST to pick up a girl. You can go alone. Its in fact preferred. Bring a microcassette

recorder and talk to it (to us). Where are you going? how many girls are you meeting in a day? You should

be approaching 12 in a day ( 6 girls in 2 clubs in an evening of 4 hours is very fair). You should tape these

conversations so we can best help you.

The BF is an obstacle. Obstacles must be disarmed. Do this by befriending HIM. Ignore HER and make him

think you are really a cool dude. You ingore her (which is good psyche) and you disarm him. You also have

the opportunity to find out how WELL he knows her and if he is even a boyfriend and not a brother or

friend. This is standard obstacle disarming tactics. NEVER neg the obstacles. ONLY NEG the TARGET.

respect the BF ALWAYS. I mean, show him all the attention and he will think you are not hitting on her.

SHE: I have a boyfriend.

YOU: If you think your boyfriend would feel THREATENED by your meeting new people maybe we shouldn't

bother getting to FREELY know eachother.

If a girl says "I have a boyfriend", I know that I fucked up and made her feel threatened. This is a reflex

answer from women who are shy scared girls. If they really HAVE a girlfriend, it is likely they feel

comfortable with that and so will appreciate attention from others. Afterall, she feels secure with her

relationship so she won't just blurt out "I have a boyfriend." If a girl says this, she unlikely HAS a boyfriend

but she DOES have a fear of you that must be disarmed. the art of attreaction is to get a girl under 2

hours. if not in 15 minutes. you dont take weeks and weeks. this is so COMPLETELY fuck up the entire

system. Trying to get a girl by talking iwth her for weeks and not finally CLOSING it NUTS man. meet the

girl, be funny. now, either get her # or bring her somewhere or kiss her there. those are the 3 options. In

class, you get her somewhere for lunch or you invite her to a party or you get her #. thats it. invite her

to your place. Once you have chatted for 15 miutes, you will have her attracted to you (that is if you do

the SS stuff). thats it. now CLOSE the sale. Its a sale man. You dont wait around trying to close a sale

for a month. This isnt selling a $40,000 copier. Its a $300 VCR. thats it. its not rocket science. we need

perspective. while you are every day trying to CHAT with her, she goes home and masterbates. Theyn she

meets a guy like me who comes along showing all the traits she would want in a man (a well honed image)

and she chases him. he plays hard to get for 10 minutes and then gives in and BAM we are fucking while

you are at home masterbating thinking about how you will make her MORE attracted to you. Anything over

2 hours and its a NOGO! Remember. after 2 hours, its gone. To attract someone is to BE attractive.

ATTRACT her. Convey the traits she wants in a man. And how do you both find out what they are and

then convey them back to her? Well, I would suggest CONVERSING with her. TALK with her. DONT HIT on

her. Make her laugh for a good 10 minutes and then try to CONNECT. Then go for the kill. dont hit on her

until she is INTERESTED. She wont be until she has already been given the traits she wants. SMILE,

HUMOUR, WILLINGNESS to LEAVE, CONFIDENCE, SOCIAL STANDING, NICE EYES (dont wear glasses). Be

charming.

Intro

Establish eye contact. Say hi ... make it sound sincere. Don't make it seem like you are trying to pick them

up. "Hi there!" is wrong. They will in fact question in their minds why you are talking to them ... you may

later on tell them

Obstacles

If other people are present, you must get them to like you first before you may show your intentions to

the one you want. If one is her brother, he must like you enough to not become an obstacle. If he thinks

you're an asshole, win him over first.

Close - give something personal - a necklace or bracelet.

Don't use pick-up lines.

Don't use anything obvious to your intentions.

Don't buy a girl a beer. Don't buy a girl a flower. In fact, don't think about picking her up; rather think

about attracting her.

What attracts a person to another?

The person is interesting. There are 2 types of interesting people: good interesting and bad interesting. If

you meet a girl and start giving knock knock jokes, that would seem interesting but in a ... "this guy is

fun, but lame" way.

Be entertaining - that is interesting. People want to hang with others because that person feels good

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around you.

The second day

Most people believe that calling a girl the next day is too needy. I don't think so. Never ask them out on a

date though. Movies and the like are out. Videos are too soon.

The more pretty the girl, the more she has been hit on. The more likely she is already taken and is only

flirting. They can knock you down more quickly because they've had practice. However, the more practice

you get at talking to pretty girls, the easier it will be to NEG HIT them. NEG HITS are LOVED by 10s!

In each case of my getting laid, I first intro'd, then entertained with out obviously showing my intentions

to seduce. I merely talked. You have to go through this too. So perfect the INTRO first. Do it withOUT

looking like you are hittin gon them. START there!

a woman will assume you want to have sex - you must confuse them into thinking that you actually don't

care about that. That is in fact a difficult thing to do.

a woman must be reached at an emotional level first and foremost. Be intellectual but reach her

emotionally. You cannot reach her this way until you have only reached her intellectually (showing no

emotional attachment to her like horniness) in the first few minutes.

I have a boyfriend if you think your boyfriend would feel threatened by your meeting new people maybe

we shouldn't bother getting to know eachother.

The close

only close when they are attracted to you. do not close until you have a pretty good certainty that they

are (see body language). once you know they are attracted, you MUST close or lose!

• " this was good"

• "so when are we going to get together again? I'm going to be performing at a club on the weekend,

are you free on fri or sat?"

• esp joke

• give necklace

• i want to see you again

• you want to see me again

• lets get together again

• · i like you

• what's your #? (Have pencil ready)

• i want your #

Scripts:

"may i call you sally (or whatever)? you can call me mr. poo-pee pants." - great if the girl is a 10!

"if i follow you home, will you keep me?"

"so how do you like me so far?"

"the voices in my head told me to come talk to you."

"would you like to kiss me or should i apologize?"

"hello suzy, your mommy couldnt make it this afternoon. she asked me to

pick you up and take you home. my thats a pretty dress. would you like

some candy?"

"Ive never driven a cadillac ... whats your name?" - too sexual for an

opening

"you have an interesting figure." - good if the babe is a 10!

"shh! people can see us!"

"you drank too much last night didnt you?"

waiting for the subway - "dont fall onto the tracks - youll make me late for

work"

1. "your nose wiggles when you speak. its sooo cute! :)"

2. pointing to feet ... (saying this like you really dont know), "are those

size 10s?"

3. "I bet you are even prettier without so much make-up on."

4. "Your eyes are rather red. You havent been treating your body very well lately have you."

5. "do you know what the C in E=MC2 is? (constant = speed of light = 186,000 miles a second) if she

doesn't say, "oh. well .... nice meeting you. :)" then turn your back to her.

The 3 SECOND RULE: when you are interested in meeting a girl, don't wait for more than three seconds

before smiling and saying hi. You have 3 seconds to do that. ALWAYS do it. Even if that's ALL you do.

Walk around, assessing women (rating them in your mind from one to ten) and if they are 8 and up, smile

and say hi. Then you are committed to following through. NO MORE FEAR because you will find yourself

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