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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

AND DEDICATIONS

We dedicate this book to the precious memory of poet Judson Jerome,

whose commitment to candor inspired and first guided us.

We were blessed to have Russell Galen as our mentor, literary agent,

critic, and friend. We are grateful to our editor, Peter Gethers, for his vision,

commitment, and courage. Also to Sharyn Rosenblum for her loyal support.

We owe special thanks to NP, whose hard work and innumerable

contributions to this project only the authors can know; and to Garison

Kaufman, whose insights enhanced the quality of the final text. Dr. Robert

H. Nightingale's medical expertise and friendship were indispensible. Miguel

Garcia provided valuable assistance.

This book is the result of a collaboration among three good friends and,

since inception, has been enthusiastically supported by the large network of

friends who comprise our extended family. We cannot list everyone, but must

single out John Gallant, Bruce Bawer, Chris Davenport, Jay Riggs, Helen

Jacobs, Berne PoliakofF, and Berl Boykin, all of whom sustained us with their

loyalty and love.

Although we cannot thank them individually, scores of helping profes-

sionals and activists lent support to this project. We would especially like to

thank William Henkin, Howard and Martha Lewis, the late Roger Peo, Fakir

Musafar, Robin Young, Thomas Gramstad, and Marie-Constance.

A NOTE ON

INTERVIEWS AND NAMES

Different Loving includes extensive quotes and personal profiles drawn from

in-depth interviews with well over 100 participants in and experts on domi-

nance and submission. They were conducted between the spring of 1991 and

the spring of 1992. Our interviewees were uniformly open and forthcoming,

and, naturally, many of the interviews tended to wander, often far afield of

the main theme of this book. We have edited and compacted the interviews

so as to allow each person to speak for him- or herself while keeping this book

at a readable length.

Each of our interviewees was given the option to appear under his or

her true name or under a pseudonym. Most chose, for obvious reasons, to

appear under pseudonyms; some, who are already publicly known, appear

under their real names; and some others who appear under their real names

do so here for the first time in terms of their interests in D&S: They have

chosen to use Different Loving as an opportunity to come out.

CONTENTS

SECTION ONE:

DIFFERENT LOVING

1. Introduction

2. Victorian Genesis and the Modern Scene

3. The ABCs of D&S

SECTION TWO:

IMAGINATION AND DESIRE

4. Power

5. Head Trips and Roleplaying

6. Ageplay

7. Depersonalization

8. Lifestyle D&S

SECTION THREE:

THE PLEASURES OF DISCOMFORT

9. Corporeal Punishments

10. Bondage

11. Spanking

12. Whipping

13. Intense Stimulation

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SECTION FOUR:

INDIVIDUALIZING THE BODY

14. Body Modification

15. Corsetting

16. Tattooing

17. Piercing and Scarification

SECTION FIVE:

TRANSLOCATIONS OF DESIRE

18. Fetishism

19. Erotic Extremities

20. Dressing for Pleasure

SECTION SIX:

MASCULINE AND FEMININE

21. Transgenderism

22. Playing on the Gender Line in D&S

23. Erotic Combat and Gender Heroics

SECTION SEVEN:

FLUID MYSTERIES

24. Water Sports

25. Golden Showers

26. Enemas

Appendix

Notes

Bibliography

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