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Gold Star Interview

INTERVIEWS WITH GOLD STAR DATING STUDENTS

Gold Star Interview #4

Marius Panzarella

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Interview #4

Note: For the first time in this series, I am going to be

interviewing a female reader of mine, Jessica. Enjoy.

Marius: Tell us a bit about yourself.

Jessica: I’m a 26-year-old Cali girl. Student by day, barmaid by

night. I love dancing at clubs and hanging out with my friends when I

am not working. I am currently studying law and I am hoping to work

as a judge advocate one day. Either that or become a law

enforcement officer with the police.

Marius: How did you find our website?

Jessica: My friend Tim sent it to me. He wanted to see if he could

trust your advice.

Marius: Based on our past correspondences, I can tell you have a lot

of experience with dating and men. So here are two questions for

you. 1) What kind of guys do you like? 2) Would you call yourself a

player?

Jessica: I love dark-skinned men who are built. Give me a confident

man with strong, experienced hands that can make me feel good and

I will drool. I don’t much care for nice guys. I am too busy having fun

and enjoying my life to waste my time with little boys. If you’re boring,

don’t call me.

I don’t think I am a player though. I got over that a few years ago.

Guys are just too easy to play. It’s not worth my time to play.

Marius: Do guys hit on you all the time?

Jessica: Every day. I work at a bar so I get a lot of attention at work.

It gets old sometimes but I guess I shouldn’t be complaining as long

as they keep the tips coming. A job is a job.

I get hit on a lot at school too. Unfortunately I am not looking for a

schoolboy. Most of them are young and have no idea what a woman

wants. They were fun when I was 19 but not when I am 26.

Marius: By your standards, what does a man has to do to get your

attention?

Jessica: He has to be distinctive. I am not looking for the average

guy. I am looking for a real man, and those are hard to find.

Marius: Define a “real man”.

Jessica: It’s hard to describe. It’s just a feeling you get when you

meet a guy. It’s the energy he carries around with him. Some guys

can just walk into a room and make you immediately think, “He’s

sexy!” A real man stands out from the crowd.

Marius: All right. So suppose you meet a “sexy man” you would like

to meet. What do you do?

Jessica: I would give him eye contact. If he’s a real man, he’ll know

what to do next.

Marius: That shows a lot of confidence on your part. But how about

when a guy approaches you first? What do you do then? Since you

work at a bar, I'm sure you’ve heard plenty of pickup lines. How do

you handle those?

Jessica: I don't like them. If you want to meet me, just say what you

want to say.

Marius: As in approach you directly?

Jessica: Yes. But don’t throw me any lines. Be subtle. Besides, I

have to be attracted to you before I will even think about doing

anything with you.

Marius: But how will you know if you’re attracted to the person?

Jessica: Oh. Believe me. I will know within seconds.

Marius: What if you don’t like the person?

Jessica: Then I’ll let you know and you better not push it. I hate guys

that are annoying and too persistent.

Marius: But a little bit of persistence is good?

Jessica: Well, yes and no. I will probably be flattered, but I still won’t

date you.

Marius: So you think you have all the power.

Jessica: Lol. I can see where this is going. No, I don’t think I have

all the power. If you’re a guy I actually like, then I will see you as my

equal.

Marius: Okay. Let’s say a guy has passed the initial test and got your

phone number. He calls and asks for a date. What do you do?

Jessica: I will go out with him and see if he’s as interesting as he is

attractive physically.

Marius: What kind of things do you look for?

Jessica: Independence, intelligence, and ambition.

Marius: Like a rich guy?

Jessica: No, not a rich guy. I am not looking for money. I probably

make more money than most guys. I have made like 400 bucks in

one night with my tips alone. I don’t need a sugar daddy. I can take

care of myself, thank you. I want someone who can capture my

imagination.

Marius: Do you meet these guys often?

Jessica: Not really. Most guys don’t even know what they want to do

in life.

Marius: You must be tired of college boys. Are you looking to get

settled down?

Jessica: Not yet. I am enjoying life too much to settle down. I don’t

feel my biological clock yet. I want to focus on school and on my

future career. I don’t have a lot of time in my schedule to date right

now, so if I date a person he better be worth my time. I am not going

to play around with some kid who doesn’t know anything.

Marius: So you’re a career girl.

Jessica: No. I am a 21 st century girl. I do whatever I want.

Marius: But what if you meet the right guy?

Jessica: Then it’s a different story.

Marius: Are you dating anyone right now?

Jessica: Yes.

Marius: How long was your longest relationship?

Jessica: 2 years.

Marius: What happened?

Jessica: I grew up. He didn’t.

Marius: All right, Jessica. Tell me the biggest mistake that men have

made while dating you in the past.

Jessica: Hmm. I would say being too dependent on me.

Marius: You mean “wimpy”.

Jessica: No, the guys that are considered “wimpy” in your teachings,

I wouldn’t even date them in the first place. I am talking about guys

that seem to be really cool and confident when you first date

them…but after awhile they become more and more clingy.

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